“Our research shows that when we don’t provide children with what they evolved to need, they turn into adults with decreased social and moral capacities,” Narvaez said. “With toxic stress in childhood, the good stuff doesn’t get a chance to grow and you become stress reactive. It’s hard to be compassionate when you are focused on yourself. We can see adults all around us who were traumatized or undercared for at critical times.”
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Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
February 14, 2016
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February 9, 2016
Sometimes parents will refer to Attachment Parenting as a parenting "style." To be accurate, though, API refers to Attachment Parenting as a parenting approach. You may be wondering what the difference is. In this week's Editor's pick on API's blog, we feature an infographic that illustrates the differences between the 4 established parenting styles. |
January 18, 2016
I can hardly believe I survived all the chaos of early new motherhood. At the beginning, I didn't think I would -- at least not with my sanity intact. New mother Julia Harger shares her story on API's blog of transitioning to motherhood with her first baby. |
January 13, 2016
The 2015 factsheets for each of the 50 states and the District of Columbia provide information for early childhood professionals and policymakers about the status of infants, toddlers, and families in their state. The State Baby Facts present infant and toddler data in the framework of good health, strong families, and positive early learning experiences. |
January 13, 2016
The State of America's Babies in 2015 presents facts for each of the 50 states and the District of Columbia to be used by early childhood professionals and policymakers about the status of infants in their state. |
January 13, 2016
What is the secret sauce that holds a family together? What are the ingredients that make some families effective, resilient, happy? The single most important thing you can do for your family may be the simplest of all: develop a strong family narrative. |
Respond with Sensitivity
February 14, 2016
"From Feb. 1 - 15, you'll be able to screen, for free, all five episodes of Raising of America, the five-part documentary about early childhood and the future of the U.S., from the Raising of America web site. " |
February 14, 2016
"Liam telling me that sometimes a boy just needs his mommy is supported in the research I found on different aspects of the topic but let me share one more story." |
January 27, 2016
"New research at University of California looking at the impact of fragmented care on brain development found that frequent interruptions to the bonding that should take place between new parents and their child can lead to emotional disorders for the child later in life. Hal Stern, a Cal-Irvine professor and report co-author, says it should be a warning to parents who find it hard to put their phones away." |
January 27, 2016
"Our work builds on many studies showing that maternal care is important for future emotional health. Importantly, it shows that it is not how much maternal care that influences adolescent behavior but the avoidance of fragmented and unpredictable care that is crucial. We might wish to turn off the mobile phone when caring for baby and be predictable and consistent." ~Dr. Tallie Z. Baram at UCI's Conte Center on Brain Programming in Adolescent Vulnerabilities and the Danette "Dee Dee" Shepard Chair in Neurological Studies |
January 19, 2016
We often refer to kids as "sponges" due to their astonishing ability to absorb so much of the information around them. We are often amazed at their capacity to learn every so quickly and soak up the world around them and expand from all that they see, hear and experience. I've seen it with my own kids, as I'm sure you've seen it with yours. They take it all in -- all that is around them: the good, the beautiful, the bad and the ugly. When I came across this video on social media, I was reminded of how important it is for parents to understand and respect this reality. |
January 13, 2016
When someone responds to me with “no problem," I often feel that my gratitude has fallen flat. It was not received in any deep or meaningful way. I am left with a somewhat cold and distant feeling. “No problem” is not an optimal way to acknowledge gratitude. It does not touch our deepest longing to give and receive love and caring. Of course, the feeling behind the words is more important than the words themselves. And a warm, broad smile might say more than any words can. But words can make a difference. |
January 13, 2016
It’s not just fashion and beauty that teens tend to be insecure about -- they can also feel unsure about their grades, friendships and more. This type of insecurity in adolescence is dangerous: Research shows that the more insecure teens are, the more likely they’re going to be insecure in adulthood. |
January 13, 2016
While the amygdala at the front end of the brain's temporal lobe has long been associated with fear, it also can influence kindness and what might be called charitable giving in humans, research shows. |
January 13, 2016
Babies develop dynamically in response to the care they receive, which influences the trajectory of their health and wellbeing. But the foundations for moral sensibilities are also influenced by early life care. The more positive touch, free play, social connection and support you got in childhood, the better attachment, mental health and social capacities you have -- but also the more open-hearted and relationally attuned to others, rather than socially withdrawn or socially oppositional you are in adulthood. |
Feed with Love and Respect
February 14, 2016
Editor's Pick"According to a series of papers released on January 28th in The Lancet, breastfeeding has substantial benefits for all mothers, newborns, and children everywhere, and may produce economic gains for countries across all income levels. Increasing optimal breastfeeding (including early initiation, exclusive breastfeeding for six months and continued breastfeeding) could save nearly 820,000 lives - 87 percent of which are infants under six months of age - and add hundreds of billions of dollars to the global economy each year." |
February 14, 2016
"LONDON — Only 1 in 200 women in the U.K., or 0.5 percent, breastfeed their children until they are 1 year old — the lowest rate in the world. That jaw-dropping figure was published this week in the Lancet medical journal in a study analyzing global trends in breastfeeding. |
February 2, 2016
The Lancet's new breasfeeding report has already received a lot of attention in the media, and rightfully so. According to the report, universal breastfeeding has the potential to save the lives of 823,000 children and 20,000 mothers each year through fewer infections in children, protection against obesity, diabetes and cancer. For those who see the world through dollar signs, that's an annual economic savings of $300 billion -- not a minor amount. |
January 27, 2016
"In summary, those who argue against the need for breastfeeding:
~Darcia Narvaez, Notre Dame |
Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
February 14, 2016
Editor's PickWondering how much is too much when it comes to screen time? Whether your child is old enough for a cell phone? Worried about how much your kids are on social media? Join parenting author Susan Stiffelman for a free series called Parenting in the Digital Age. Speakers include API's own Lysa Parker and Barbara Nicholson, as well as Byron Katie, Alanis Morissette, Dr. Dan Siegel, Rachel Macy Stafford and a host of other writers, teachers, and experts in the field. Just click here to sign up |
January 28, 2016
Wondering how much is too much when it comes to screen time? Whether your child is old enough for a cell phone? Worried about how much your kids are on social media? Join parenting author Susan Stiffelman for a free series called Parenting in the Digital Age. Speakers include API's own Lysa Parker and Barbara Nicholson, as well as Byron Katie, Alanis Morissette, Dr. Dan Siegel, Rachel Macy Stafford and a host of other writers, teachers, and experts in the field. Just click here to sign up!
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January 27, 2016
"Let’s stop writing headlines about how workers are getting “perks” when a company announces a new paid leave policy, or how a successful company “pampers” workers if the work culture is organized around effective work, and values employees who have full lives outside of work—with on site child care, sabbaticals for volunteer work, lunch time yoga classes or surfing and office doors that are locked over the weekend to keep people from coming to work." ~Brigid Schulte, Pacific Standard, New America Weekly |
Practice Positive Discipline
February 9, 2016
API has finished reviewing the book "Raise the Child You've Got, Not the One You Want" by Nancy Rose. This was a great book for all of our families to read that is a quick to read. We post in-depth reviews inside our online book club, API Reads on GoodReads. |
February 8, 2016
Over the past few months, my 3-year-old son has been going through a phase of hitting his brother and sister when he's angry. API Leader and mother of 3, Kelly Shealer shares on API's blog about teaching her son how to handle anger without hurting others. |
January 13, 2016
The year 2015 witnessed a milestone in progress towards universal prohibition of corporal punishment of children: now, more than half of United Nations members have achieved prohibition in all settings, including the home -- or are committed to doing so. In total, 48 nations have now prohibited all corporal punishment, and governments in another 52 countries have made a commitment to full prohibition. |
Provide Consistent and Loving Care
January 28, 2016
I find the whole concept of "being present" for another person so relevant to our world. How many of us have not really been given sufficient presence by our parents while we were growing up or even by other influential adults that helped to shape our lives? In this throwback post on API's blog, a mother shares the importance of giving our children presence through eye contact and active listening. |
January 21, 2016
Beginning this week, API's blog will be publishing weekly Editor's Pick posts -- through which we'll be highlighting an article or blog post that takes a look at attachment science as it increasingly becomes commonplace in our society. This week's pick is a must-read article for any parent or professional involved in family court. |
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January 25, 2016
Editor's PickAfter celebrating API’s 20th year serving families and validating the impact of API, 2015 was a year to plan and ensure that API can continue our services and programs. |
January 15, 2016
Last year was a big year, editorially, for API. There were so many amazingly supportive and educational online magazine features and blog posts! Of the hundreds of articles published by API last year, here is the content that makes it into the top 10 of 2015, based on consistency with API's ethos and mission and originality in how the material is presented. |
January 12, 2016
2015 was a full year! API received hundreds of submissions for its publications from parents and professionals around the world, which were in turn read by the tens of thousands of parents in the global API community and shared among their networks beyond API. That's a lot of families receiving support in Attachment Parenting! Take a look back at 2015 through highlights of API's articles and blog posts. |
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