The practice of mindfulness can be tremendously helpful under all kinds of life circumnstances, including chronic illness.
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Provide Consistent and Loving Care
March 29, 2016
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Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
March 28, 2016
Editor's Pick |
March 18, 2016
I conducted a survey of mothers. I asked “What are the most difficult aspects of mothering young children?” The most common response was: Isolation, Loneliness. A huge percentage of us feel lonely. We are lonely because it feels like no one really understands, because we don’t get out of the house, and because we live so far from our families and support systems. |
Respond with Sensitivity
March 26, 2016
The BOND Conference is for anyone who works with infants and their families, and for anyone interested in promoting healthy family bonding. Those who first come in contact with infants and their families are the “First Responders” in a family’s life, that window of time that most strongly affects human bonding and family health. API Members use API-community to register.
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March 21, 2016
We are working toward a day when Attachment Parenting won't need a label -- it will just be parenting. But as of now, the parenting practices that are based on Attachment Theory, and the ever-growing body of researc informed by it, are not well known by the general public. Mother of 2, API Leader Tina McRorie explains on API's blog why we still need to label our parenting approach. |
March 18, 2016
A huge part of Attachment Parenting is learning, and teaching our children, how to be mindful -- that ability to calm our minds, connect with our emotions in the moment, work through any conflicting feelings, and respond to others in truth and compassion. This week, API's blog features two resources on mindfulness for children and explores the powerful effect mindfulness has on parenting. |
March 12, 2016
"But what if I told you that, broadly speaking, Dr. Sax and every other expert who has made similarly sweeping condemnations of modern child-centred parenting in recent years (think of books like All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood by Jennifer Senior or Drop the Worry Ball by Alex Russell and Tim Falconer) – are simply empirically wrong? There may be a general feeling of a “crisis” in modern parenting, but if you look at the numbers, across the board, there has simply never been a better time to be a middle-class child in Canada." |
March 11, 2016
Mother 2 and Assistant Editor of API's blog, Effie Morchi, discusses a troubling trend in Palo Alto, Calif., and how it ties into parenting: I've come to realize that there is one fundamental question in which the answer is the foundation of our parenting approach. It defines how we, parents, raise our kids. How do you define success and happiness? |
March 11, 2016
Holding our difficult emotions with kindness isn’t easy, but with practice we can more readily approach and transform the shadows of human life. This is a particularly potent enterprise for parents given the considerable influence we have in shaping the neuropsychology of future generations. |
Practice Positive Discipline
March 23, 2016
Trust, mutual respect and collaboration are the foundation of a strong relationship, whether the relationship is between spouses, friends, or parent and child. For a child, the relationship with his or her parents is the first -- and most significant -- relationship. Parental example has considerable impact on kids, and through our relationship with our child, we model how to engage in relationships. |
Other
March 18, 2016
Whether you will be starting your plants from seeds or purchasing transplants from a greenhouse, it is exciting to start planting! Young children will likely be eager to help, but may not have the patience to plant in orderly rows or may make the mistake of pulling a sprout (or full plant) instead of a weed. A well-intentioned time set aside together can turn to frustration when expectations are set to high. It is best to keep things fun and simple. |
March 15, 2016
"Did you receive affection, play freely and feel supported in childhood? Childhood experiences like these appear to have a lot to do with well-being and moral capacities in adulthood. In a forthcoming article in the journal Applied Developmental Science, University of Notre Dame professor of psychology Darcia Narvaez and colleagues Lijuan Wang and Ying Cheng, associate professors of psychology, show that childhood experiences that match with evolved needs lead to better outcomes in adulthood." |
March 11, 2016
I conducted a multi-generational survey of mothers about how motherhood has changed. Today I want to share what these women said about the dangers of childhood from each generation. It’s been fascinating to me to see what has changed and what has stayed the same. One of the things I heard from older generations was the idea that, though we have a lot of new dangers for our children today with the internet, in many ways we are all safer. |
March 9, 2016
"Cruelty flows from anger and frustration, and confers a feeling of power over others that can be pleasurable. Children aren’t born with effective techniques for emotional self-regulation. When they experience strong negative emotions, they feel they’ve lost control, which is scary, and one way to regain the feeling of control is to be cruel or hurtful. |
Feed with Love and Respect
March 18, 2016
If you’ve ever travelled with an irritable infant or testy toddler, you know exactly how challenging it can be. Throw a crowded airport in there, and you have all the makings of a scene from a chaotic holiday movie. There you are, the overwhelmed heroine, holding eleventy-five things in only two hands, a hungry baby in a carrier on your back, a three-year-old asking for a snack and trying to dig into the carry-on bag slung over your shoulder. You’ve all been up since 5am and nobody has taken a nap yet. |
March 16, 2016
It’s not just American breastfeeding mothers who have had to fight for their rights to express breastmilk on the job. |
March 16, 2016
There is no place for even a mention of a bathroom in the same sentence as breastfeeding or pumping. The fact that there are still people — and so many of them, too! — that direct mothers to breastfeed or pump in a restroom is astounding. At first thought, maybe it’s because the people who are directing breastfeeding and pumping mothers to the bathroom are so removed from the idea of breastfeeding and pumping that they really have no idea. |
March 16, 2016
Mississippi Sen. Hillman Frazier (D-Jackson) is standing up for breastfeeding in perhaps the boldest way yet: proposing a fine for not allowing a mother to breastfeed her child. He has filed Senate Bill 2070, which would make it a misdemeanor for anyone to deny a woman to breastfeed in public and subject that person, company or agency to a fine of $25-$250 for each offense. If passed, the bill would be effective July 1. |
March 11, 2016
Despite the couple’s celebrity status, her daily life is filled mostly with taking care of their three young children. She is also focused on bringing attention to issues facing women and girls. |
March 9, 2016
""We were surprised by our findings because of the high number of centers that indicated they would follow ahuman-milk feeding plan, but a large number of them didn't have staff that was properly trained on how to handle it," said Spatz. This study shows that widespread education of child care providers and staff is absolutely necessary to ensure adherence to breastfeeding support guidelines. It also aids in the proper dissemination of information about breastfeeding to families." |
March 9, 2016
"New study finds supervisor, co-worker attitudes, comments matter more than employer accommodations." |
Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
March 16, 2016
Editor's PickIn honor of Week of the Young Child (April 10-16), National Public Health Week and National Child Abuse Prevention Month,wa |
March 16, 2016
It is embarrassing to be living in what many would call the most advanced nation in the world, but one that still does not guarantee parental leave for all of its employees after the birth of a baby. After all, it is 2015. |
March 16, 2016
I took Tylenol when I was pregnant. Now, I’m sitting here reading about a study through which Norwegian researchers have found a link between prenatal use of acetaminophen and ibuprofen, and childhood asthma. |
March 16, 2016
You either have preeclampsia or you don’t. You either have gestational diabetes or you don’t. You either have high blood pressure or you don’t. Right? When it comes to pregnancy complications, many of us are led to believe that these diagnoses — and their risks to our unborn babies — are cut and dry, that is we either have a pregnancy health problem or we don’t, and our babies are either at risk of a complication or they’re not. But at least when it comes to high blood pressure, being below the cutoff line of clinically high blood pressure doesn’t mean baby is necessarily safe. |
March 11, 2016
In Cambodia, due to a traditional diet poor in iron-rich foods, iron deficiency affects over half of the population. Because iron supplements are cost prohibitive, an alternative solution was needed to solve this paramount dilemma. The answer lay in a Cambodian cultural symbol of hope and luck: the fish. |
March 9, 2016
There's growing debate (and growing support) in the U.S. around paid parental leave. It's become a major campaign issue, and many states and municipalities are considering its pros, cons, and costs. For large private companies--think Google, Netflix, Adobe--expansive leave policies are a salary bargaining chip and a recruiting and retention tool. |
March 7, 2016
It was an ordinary, uneventful week, yet it was profound -- we were reaping the fruits of Attachment Parenting. Mother of 2 and API's Assistant Editor, Effie Morchi reflects on the last 10 years of Attachment Parenting in her home. |
Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally
March 15, 2016
Mother of 1, Jane Kilmer, discusses the biological norm for toddler sleep and cautions parents to beware of sleep-training, on API's blog. |
March 9, 2016
"Just one more hug goodnight." All you want to do is put your child to bed and have everyone get to sleep without a fuss. Many times, it isn't that simple. Mother of 3, Rochell Kipnis shares on API's blog 9 tips she's learned to help her children sleep. |
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