Killing Mothering, the Center of Society
"What does the evolved human nest look like? Here is the common set of characteristics identified by anthropological studies among small-band hunter-gatherers around the world (Hewlett & Lamb, 2005; Konner, 2005):
- Affection and constant touch or physical presence (according to a child’s needs)
- Responsiveness to needs to keep baby from becoming distressed
- Breastfeeding on request for 2-5 years (average age of weaning is four years)
- Multiple adult, responsive caregivers
- Positive social support for mother and baby
- Self-directed play throughout childhood in nature with multi-age playmates
- An additional component could be added: soothing perinatal experiences (no separation of newborn from mother, no painful procedures, etc.)"
~ Darcia Narvaez, API Board of Directors
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