Don't blame the baby
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When I am pregnant, I can sleep anywhere, anytime. But there was one thing that kept me awake at night, staring at the ceiling: my son's warm body snuggled next to mine, with his arm draped over my growing belly. I'd pull him closer to me and think, "What have I done? How is this going to rock his world? What is going to happen to my relationship with him?"
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