We had never heard of AP before having our first child. Our doula gave us a copy of Attached at the Heart as part of our gift basket. A few days after bringing our son home, my husband began reading it and said he thought I'd enjoy it. It just made so much sense! As we read the book, we realized so much of what we felt was biologically normal.
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Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
August 15, 2014
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August 11, 2014
The crazy world of the postpartum body...there is really nothing quite like it. I didn't even recognize myself after I had my son and was almost at the loss of where to start getting active again. I had always been an active person, but it was difficult at first to figure out how to incorporate that into my life now that I had a little one. Not only that, but my body was not even capable of doing all the things that it had been before. Not initially anyway. |
August 10, 2014
"Every day I go about my life: drive my children to and fro, make breakfast, lunch and dinner, and change my baby's diapers in my four-walled house while the world buzzes around me busy and fast. My little plays on the floor and I watch him pluck toy after toy out of the large box in the corner of the room and although my life is rich with many things, I think about you because I miss the village. |
August 10, 2014
A new Northwestern University study suggests that an intervention focused on strengthening families can reduce inflammation, a chronic overactivation of parts of the immune system that is important for long-term health. Children of low socioeconomic status (SES) often experience such inflammation and poorer health at all stages of life than their more advantaged peers—from lower birth weights at infancy to higher rates of age-related cardiovascular disease and cancer. |
August 9, 2014
Every day in June, the most popular wedding month of the year, about 13,000 American couples will say “I do,” committing to a lifelong relationship that will be full of friendship, joy, and love that will carry them forward to their final days on this earth. |
Feed with Love and Respect
August 15, 2014
Last year, in honor of World Breastfeeding Week and National Breastfeeding Month, HuffPost Parents worked with Kim Simon, Suzanne Barston and Jamie Grumet to launch the I Support You campaign -- a movement that celebrates all moms and their feeding choices. This summer, we asked them to reflect on how their efforts have evolved over the past twelve months. Here, in their own words, are the criticisms they've met, the strides they've made -- and their hopes for the future. |
August 7, 2014
What this year's celebration of World Breastfeeding Week is really about--more than updating the status on breastfeeding acceptance or increasing understanding for mothers who are unable to breastfeed--is advocacy for parent support. In this spririt, Attachment Parenting International created the Parent Support Deserts project through which we mapped gaps in local parent support opportunities specific to Attachment Parenting. |
August 6, 2014
My husband gently bounced our wailing 3-week-old son while pacing around our apartment. I quickly fnished toweling off, ran a comb through my wet hair and threw on a comfy pair of post-baby pants and a T-shirt. Luckily I had the forethought to brush my teeth while in the shower, a time saver I had picked up over the last few weeks. I jumped into the corner of the couch that had recently become imprinted with my shape and adjusted the nursing pillow. "Okay, ready," I said, refreshed from my shower and the savored last few moments without a child attached to me. Beckett screamed. |
Respond with Sensitivity
August 14, 2014
Beyond Red Ridinghood: Protecting Children from Our Pain About the World |
August 13, 2014
I know as a mom, I often want to "silver lining" things for my kids. They are struggling and having a hard time, and I want to help them feel better. But Brene Brown of the University of Houston makes an excellent point in that rarely can a response make something better. What makes something better is connection. Instead of silver-lining things to help my kids feel better, I need to meet them where they are with those heavy feelings. I need to sit in the dark with them. |
August 10, 2014
As all the kids line up to go to school, your son, Timmy, turns to you and says, "I don't want to take the bus. My stomach hurts. Please don't make me go." You cringe and think, Here we go again. What should be a simple morning routine explodes into a daunting challenge. |
August 10, 2014
Editor's PickAre American kids spoiled rotten? Every year a new article goes viral by preying on parents' fears. Are we being too permissive? Are we raising a generation of brats? |
August 10, 2014
Editor's Pick"It’s happened again. A parenting article gone viral, one that has the mainstream masses rising from their seats in raucous applause…. and the rest of us shaking our collective heads. In the article 5 Reasons Modern-Day Parenting is in Crisis, a nanny (I think that’s important to note. She’s writing it as a nanny, not as a mother) outlines what she believes to be the five worst mistakes being made by us modern parents. It’s a crisis, she tells us. |
August 10, 2014
Editor's PickBy carefully watching nearly a hundred hours of video showing mother rats protecting, warming, and feeding their young pups, and then matching up what they saw to real-time electrical readings from the pups' brains, researchers at NYU Langone Medical Center have found that the mother's presence and social interactions—her nurturing role—directly molds the early neural activity and growth of her offsprings' brain. |
August 10, 2014
Is it enough that our children survive? Is it enough that our children grow up into adults who can be functioning members of society–who can choose to marry and have children, who can get and keep a job and pay their bills? Should we be thinking about the bigger picture? And what is that bigger picture? |
August 10, 2014
Strict parenting increases the risk of drug abuse in teens, a latest research reveals. |
Provide Consistent and Loving Care
August 14, 2014
In 1998 the Norwegian government introduced a program that substantially increased parents’ incentives to stay home with children under the age of three. Many eligible children had older siblings, and we investigate how this program affected long-run educational outcomes of the older siblings. Using comprehensive administrative data, we estimate a difference-in-differences model which exploits differences in older siblings' exposures to the program. |
August 12, 2014
If there's one thing Tiger Moms have in common with those bringing up Bébé, it's that they both show us just how varied parenting styles can be. Argentinian parents let their kids stay up until all hours, Japanese parents let 7-year-olds ride the subway by themselves and Danish parents leave their kids sleeping in a stroller on the curb while they go inside to shop or eat. |
August 10, 2014
Editor's Pick"Not long ago, my second grader came to me in tears. He was upset that I wouldn’t be able to chaperone his class field trip the next day because I had to work. “'I want you there. I want you to go. I want to be with my daddy.' "I hugged him and assured him that we would take our own family field trip over the weekend. This compromise seemed to make him feel better, but it didn’t make me feel better." |
August 9, 2014
What social skills does a three-year-old bring to interactions with a new peer partner? If he has strong bonds to his parents, the child is likely to be a positive, responsive playmate, and he'll be able to adapt to a difficult peer by asserting his needs, according to a new University of Illinois study published in Developmental Psychology. |
Use Nurturing Touch
August 10, 2014
Editor's Pick[IMAGES] A parent’s love for their child knows no boundaries, and this is true both of us and of our animal friends. In these heartwarming photos of animal parenting, you’ll recognize many of the same tender and stressful childhood moments that you may have also experienced as a parent or a child. |
Other
August 10, 2014
We invite you to join in API's parenting shift: API is on a quest to remake parenting education by providing families with classes that are based in attachment parenting--our own uprising. We are piloting the training of this program and seeking professionals and parents who are interested becoming among our first trained! |
August 10, 2014
[VIDEO] This 5-minute video depicts a theory of change from the Frontiers of Innovation community for achieving breakthrough outcomes for vulnerable children and families. It describes the need to focus on building the capabilities of caregivers and strengthening the communities that together form the environment of relationships essential to children’s lifelong learning, health, and behavior. |
August 10, 2014
Editor's PickAttachment parenting is a style of caring for your infant that brings out the best in the baby and the best in the parents. This concept of parenting is coined by world famous pediatrician and parenting guru, Dr William Sears and many parents around the world practice this concept including Hollywood celebrities like Angelina Jolie, Gisele Bundchen and many others. Let us take a look at what Attachment Parenting stands to benefit in a parent-baby relation. |
August 9, 2014
The Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System (YRBSS) monitors six types of health-risk behaviors that contribute to the leading causes of death and disability among youth and adults, including—
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August 9, 2014
"Has anyone noticed how many articles bash attachment parenting lately? I sure have. While most attachment parents are quick to point out the benefits of full term breastfeeding, delaying daycare, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, and anything else they found worked best for their family, one has to wonder… Is all the criticism based on something real? Could attachment parenting make parents miserable, and are we all sacrificing our happiness for the supposed sake of our children? Let’s dig a little deeper…" |
August 9, 2014
Fathers who spend time with their kids help instill self-control and social skills, numerous studies show, but exactly how fathers do that is a mystery. WSJ columnist Sue Shellenbarger and father of two Greg Kessler join Tanya Rivero on Lunch Break to decode the father factor. |
Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally
August 10, 2014
Editor's PickMainstream parenting media are asserting once again that the cry-it-out sleep paradigm is harmless to babies—this time in the form of a two-paragraph morsel as one of the “sleep myths” Parents magazine “sets straight” in “Rest Assured” (July 2014 issue). The myth is listed as “crying it out is bad for your baby” and goes on to conclude that au contraire, “whatever sleep training method feels most comfortable for you is just fine.” Never mind how the baby feels. “Just fine”? |
Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
August 10, 2014
Editor's PickThe benefits of paternity leave are already known to be widespread (for fathers, for their spouses, for their children), but now there’s another: taking it might induce other dads to follow suit. |
Practice Positive Discipline
August 9, 2014
Editor's PickHow to discipline the next generation is a hotly debated topic. In 2012, a national survey showed more than half of women and three-quarters of men in the United States believe a child sometimes needs a "good hard spanking." Science tells a different story. Researchers say physical punishment actually alters the brain -- not only in an "I'm traumatized" kind of way but also in an "I literally have less gray matter in my brain" kind of way. |
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