Trust the process. Today, I counsel doula clients with these words. As I hold the hands of women in labor, watch them open to the challenge and wonder of birth, and offer loving encouragement – my heart is full. Somehow that young girl in Utah found her way to this work. Somehow she found the strength to mentor another in crossing a threshold she once feared.
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Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
August 29, 2015
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August 14, 2015
Parenting, in a nutshell, is giving your children the tools to succeed in life. Here are ten parenting tips that I have tried to teach our children and have used in my medical practice during the past 40 years. |
August 14, 2015
Analysis of reports examined in this paper indicate that “many women globally experience poor treatment during childbirth, including abusive, neglectful, or disrespectful care.” This treatment can further complicate the situation downstream, by creating a disincentive for women to seek care from these facilities and providers in future pregnancies. |
July 29, 2015
A new study from Indiana University provides evidence in mice that males may play a positive role in the development of offspring's brains starting before pregnancy.
The research, reported July 30 in the Proceedings of the Royal Society of London B: Biological Sciences, found that female mice exposed to male pheromones gave birth to infants with greater mental ability. |
Respond with Sensitivity
August 28, 2015
Becoming mature is not inevitable. Not all children enter the adult world able to hold on to themselves while, at the same time, mix with others. Mother of 6 and Attachment Parenting educator, Shoshana Hayman offers a real-life story on API's blog of how giving something as simple as rest from the busyness and complexities of life can free our children up to rediscover curiosity, creativity and maturation. |
August 24, 2015
Being a mother: It means to hold and nurture you inside my body until the moment you arrive in this world, having unconditional devotion to another being till my last breath, to trust my instincts and teach you to trust yours, to care for you, embrace you and answer all your cries, to endure exhaustion and pain while always recognizing there is much to gain, to be elated... Mother of 2, Effie Morchi reflects on her role as a mother on API's blog. |
August 22, 2015
Julinda Adams reflects on API's blog how a stranger's comment in a grocery store helped calm her, as a new mother, and get her in touch with both her baby's emotional needs and her own instincts. |
August 1, 2015
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July 29, 2015
The term "secure attachment" refers to the relationship infants and toddlers form with their parents when their needs are met on a regular basis with calmness, respect and warm affection. Experts report other less healthy attachments tend to take shape when parents frequently fail to meet the needs of their young children or respond to them with a lack of compassion. |
July 27, 2015
In June, you were asked to help tell your story through a survey created by SMU in collaboration with API. We are thrilled to report that more than 1,200 parents participated from 49 states and 37 countries! Many of you told us you that the multiple choice was too limiting, so we've created a short, open-ended set of questions designed to hear everything you want to tell us about the first survey and your AP experience. As always, responses are anonymous. |
July 27, 2015
When I was a little girl, I was certain there was a monster hiding under my bed, waiting to grab my feet and drag me under the bed! To fool him, I would take a running leap onto my bed at night. Sometimes I thougth that I jumped too close to the bed, so I would do this over again, until I was sure I jumped from far enough away. This little ceremony would repeat itself every night. |
Provide Consistent and Loving Care
August 28, 2015
Share your families!Share your creativity!One of our popular AP Month activities, the Blog Event, will be inviting submissions in the months leading up to October.
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August 14, 2015
The findings suggest that children from high-conflict homes, by training their brains to be vigilant, process signs of interpersonal emotion, whether anger or happiness, differently than children from low-conflict homes, Schermerhorn said. For some, that extra vigilance may result in having difficulty in social relationships later in life, Schermerhorn hypothesized, although more research is needed to test that theory. |
July 29, 2015
When we hear about a person's mental health, it's often in the context of a problem -- a colleague is struggling to handle stress at work, a friend's child is having behavioral problems at school, or a family member has received a diagnosis. And almost always, these discussions are limited to older children and adults. So it begs the questions: when does mental health begin? Do babies have mental health? |
Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
August 24, 2015
For the month of September we will be reading Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne. This is a book on how to simplify your life with your family while at the same time enjoying it. The topics to be covered are: |
August 24, 2015
With the return of the school many of us are wondering how can we stay balanced ourselves while at the same time honoring our child's needs. School is a time period in which many are pulled in many directions with homework, after-school activities, and weekend practices. How do you keep your child's needs in mind and honor yours as well? Listen to this teleseminar to find out how. |
August 18, 2015
A new study finds that the quantity of social interactions a person has in young adulthood influences their well-being later in life. |
August 14, 2015
Under Greene's philosophy, you'd no more punish a child for yelling out in class or jumping out of his seat repeatedly than you would if he bombed a spelling test. You'd talk with the kid to figure out the reasons for the outburst (was he worried he would forget what he wanted to say?), then brainstorm alternative strategies for the next time he felt that way. The goal is to get to the root of the problem, not to discipline a kid for the way his brain is wired. |
Feed with Love and Respect
August 17, 2015
If an employee requests workplace accommodations for breastfeeding, what is the financial risk for the employer if they deny the request? Simply put, it can cost more to deny the accommodation than to grant it. Breastfeeding mother Kate Frederick details the costs to employers for not allowing working women to breastfeed, as well as introduce her 2015 bill for the New Hampshire Legislature, on API's blog. |
August 14, 2015
I received a copy of To Three and Beyond at a critical point in my parenting journey. At the time, I was breastfeeding my third child at 2-1/2 years old. The longest I had breastfed my other two children was 9 months, and my original goal with my third baby was 1 year. I was thrilled to make it to 1 year, and so changed my goal to 18 months. API Leader and API Publications Coordinator Rita Brhel shares her interview with Janell Robisch on API's blog about her book for mothers breastfeeding through toddlerhood and beyond. |
August 10, 2015
So, when I was feeling touched-out or just ready to quit nursing, I would test the waters, cut back a little or talk to my son A.J. about it, and see how he reacted. I felt that since I was the adult, I could be patient when I needed to. Mother and editor/author of the new book about child-led weaning, To Three and Beyond, Janell Robisch shares the story of how her son weaned from breastfeeding when he was ready on API's blog. |
August 7, 2015
It is often noted that part of what makes breastfeeding so challenging at times is that in our Western culture, we just don't see breastfeeding happening on a regular basis. API Leader and API Publications Coordinator, Rita Brhel reports on API's blog aobut a talk given by Native American lactation consultant Camie Jae Goldhammer about breastfeeding and historical trauma. |
August 4, 2015
Born from an entirely protective environment where mother's body tends to baby's every immune nutritional need, breastfeeding transitions the newborn safely into childhood. Nutrition is truly only a portion of breastfeeding's role. Along with significant neurological and hormonal provisions, there are multitude immune-protective factors. A major, but seldom considered, portion of baby's protection from illnesses, and the continued health of the child, comes from the early establishment of optimal gut flora. |
August 3, 2015
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August 2, 2015
World Breastfeeding Week is an exciting time for me every year. Not only do I greatly enjoy joining in the annual celebration through API's week-long observance on the APtly Said blog, but I also get to partake in fun, local events thorugh my job as a WIC Breastfeeding Peer Counselor. Today, I kicked off World Breastfeeding Week by helping with a local Big Latch On event. Mother of 3, API Leader and API's Publications Coordinator, Rita Brhel shares her impressions of a local Big Latch On event, one of many World Breastfeeding Week activities for mothers across the globe. |
July 31, 2015
The 2015 theme of World Breastfeeding Week is "Breastfeeding and Work: Let's Make It Work!" From Aug. 1-7, API's blog will honor a collection of inspiring mothers who are dedicated to supporting mothers in breastfeeding no matter their lifestyle choices. A few of the 7 upcoming posts to look forward to on APtly Said: + A tribute to Martha Sears, coauthor of many of the Sears parenting books |
Other
August 14, 2015
Have more to say?! Many of you told us you that the multiple choice was too limiting so we’ve created a short, open-ended set of questions designed to hear everything you want to tell us about the first survey and your AP experience. As always, responses are anonymous. |
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July 27, 2015
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July 25, 2015
If you love our work then tell the world! You have an opportunity to help us make even more of a difference in our community. GreatNonprofits – a review site like TripAdvisor – is honoring highly reviewed nonprofits with their 2015 Top-Rated List. Won’t you help us raise visibility for our work by posting a review of your experience with us? All reviews will be visible to potential donors and volunteers. It’s easy and only takes 3 minutes! |
Practice Positive Discipline
July 29, 2015
April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month, when organizations across the country come together to raise awareness about child abuse. Child abuse, or maltreatment, can take different forms, including neglect, psychological maltreatment, and physical or sexual abuse. Maltreatment can result in long-lasting negative consequences to children's physical, psychological, behavioral, societal, and even biological development. |
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