Mother and wellness specialist, Meryn Callander of Australia explains on API's blog why couples, fathers especially, can find new parenthood to be challenging and what they can do about it before and after baby arrives.
Monthly Links
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Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, and Parenting
January 6, 2016
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December 22, 2015
API is directly involved in building resilience in communities across the nation and around the world through its local API Support Groups and accredited API Leaders by supporting secure parent-child attachments. It cannot be emphasized enough how important secure attachments are. To be sure, resilience is something we all want for our children -- actually, resilience is something all children need. Jane Stevens, founder of ACEs Too High and the ACEs Connection Network, elaborates on resilience and its opposite -- trauma -- in this API interview on API's blog. |
December 15, 2015
While women have made significant headway when it comes professional equality, a shift of a similar magnitude hasn’t happened on the home front: Traditional gender roles persist at home, despite many couples’ best efforts to divide the work more equally. Men who take on the role of primary caregiver are often stigmatized rather than lauded. For gender equality to work, men need to take on these roles as often and as enthusiastically as women do. But that’s been a slow transition. |
December 15, 2015
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December 15, 2015
Maternal weight gain between pregnancies increases the risk for stillbirth and infant death during the first year of life, according to a nationwide cohort study. |
December 9, 2015
Editor's PickAPI Resource Advisory Council member, Lisa Reagan shares on API's blog about what it's like watching her son getting ready to leave home and move out on his own, after 17 years of Attachment Parenting. |
December 7, 2015
For me, spiritual parenting means raising aware children who view themselves as part of the whole of humanity, who recognize that we are all one, and that everything we do affects others. It means being conscious of how our actions as parents affect the inner landscapes of our children. It means helping children be humans who want to better the world, who care about others, have empathy and are kind, and understand that actions have natural consequences both positive and negative. |
Practice Positive Discipline
January 4, 2016
I've always let my children try to do a lot of things on their own, but lately I've been making more of an effort to allow my 5-year-old son more autonomy in what he's doing. It's sometimes hard to back off and let him make more decisions for himself, but I'm finding it's worth it. API Leader and mother of 3, Kelly Shealer shares on API's blog about how allowing her son to build a paper castle his own way taught him valuable skills in problem-solving. |
December 15, 2015
Would the world be a better place if more of us were trained to take a mindful moment to connect emotions we are feeling to our brains before we act? Advocates say that mindfulness, a behavioral learning approach that is experiencing exponential growth in schools across the country, develops a moment-by-moment awareness of one’s thoughts, emotions, sensations and surrounding environment. It has been shown to strengthen our ability to pay attention where and when we want. |
December 14, 2015
Editor's PickBy its very nature, those of us who are insightful and mindful gravitate toward Attachment Parenting (AP) as it fits in with who we are as individuals. But when we model positive discipline and any other of API's Eight Principles of Parenting, other parents may be inspired and interestdin learning more about our parenting approach. Mother of 2, Effie Morchi explores on API's blog the idea of personal insight as an inherent trait of parents who gravitate toward Attachment Parenting. |
December 7, 2015
Is "time out" a useful disciplien tool, which lovingly offers a child guidance that reflects acceptance of his capabilities and sensitivity to his feelings? It can be, if approached and managed in a positive spirit. At the same time, its use is more limited than we might think. |
Feed with Love and Respect
December 28, 2015
This holiday season, my 3-1/2-year-old daughter and I said bye-bye to our breastfeeding relationship on a very happy note. Here is how it worked for us. Mother of 1, India-native Divya Singh shares her toddler's gentle, child-led weaning story on API's blog. |
December 16, 2015
You know this saying since it’s pretty much a parenting cliché used to cajole children to eat their vegetables: “There are starving children in Africa. You should be grateful that you have this food to eat.” I have never understood the logic that leads people to believe that mentioning such tragic information could motivate anyone to eat, let alone to develop a sudden appreciation for asparagus or rhubarb. If there are hungry children then there is a serious situation that should be fixed, right? How could begrudgingly eating the last bites alleviate trouble of that magnitude? |
December 15, 2015
The Travis County jail is one of four nationwide — and the only in Texas, USA — to allow new moms to breastfeed in custody. |
December 15, 2015
When a brand is going to do what brands do — try to sell you a product — it’s terrific when the company attempts to do it in a way that’s at least smart and sensitive to its customers. But if you really want to end the “mommy wars,” this formula company could start by not perpetuating the concept. |
December 15, 2015
New evidence has emerged on the role that breastfeeding could have in preventing diabetes. Early results from a Canadian study suggest that breastfeeding reduces the risk of mothers and their offspring developing the condition. |
December 7, 2015
Amy Anderson, a mother from Maine, USA, opens up about her son's death, healing through continued lactation and working with employers about pumping at work to donate breastmilk. |
Other
December 27, 2015
It has become a cultural cliché that raising adolescents is the most difficult part of parenting. It’s common to joke that when kids are in their teens they are sullen, uncommunicative, more interested in their phones than in their parents and generally hard to take. But this negative trope about adolescents misses the incredible opportunity to positively shape a kid’s brain and future life course during this period of development. |
December 19, 2015
An attached parent of a preteen, a tween, and a teen, Camille North served as the editor for API Links and blogs on APtly Said. She lives in Austin, Texas, with her husband of fifteen years and fills her days with homeschooling her three children. She has a master's degree in biopsychology and spent her pre-mom life in scholarly publishing. |
Respond with Sensitivity
December 22, 2015
API Cofounder and coauthor of Attached at the Heart, Lysa Parker shares how she is relearning the art of happiness from her 2-year-old granddaughter. |
December 19, 2015
Editor's PickEmotional resilience has become a buzzword in parenting. Yet most of us want our children to feel only one emotion: happiness. We may realize that emotional pain is an opportunity for awakening, but with our children we are quick to shield them from any emotional discomfort. Instead of happiness, I believe our parenting goal should be emotional health. |
December 15, 2015
How do you stop a child, especially one who has experienced significant adversity, from growing up to be a psychopath? Responsive, empathetic caregiving -- especially when children are in distress -- helps prevent boys from becoming callous, unemotional adolescents, according to a new Tulane University study of children raised in foster care. |
December 4, 2015
Editor's PickSan Bernardino, Paris, Chattanooga, Tunisia, Fort Hood, Lafayette, Kuwait, Colorado Springs -- this short list is just a fraction of the mass shooting and terrorist activities that have occurred this year in the United States and around the world, not to mention the last few years. It is mind boggling, heart breaking and troubling to me as a parent whose goal is to raise compassionate, peaceful children. How am I supposed to do that exactly? |
November 30, 2015
A child's ability to form healthy self-validation is a vital goal of child development. In fact, a child's capacity for self-validation has everything to do with the development of emotional safety -- the overarching development goal of childhood. Self-regulation specialist, Denise Durkin explores on API's blog how to define, and teach, self-validation to our children. |
Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life
December 21, 2015
The holiday season is upon us. As chilly winds begin to blow and the days become short and gray, we are given the opportunity to draw near and celebrate what brings warmth, light and love into our lives in the face of cold and darkness. API Leader and mother of 2, Emily Van Bogaert gives us holiday gift-giving tips on API's blog to put more focus on creating connection and less emphasis on consumerism. |
December 19, 2015
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December 19, 2015
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November 30, 2015
"Corporations vying for talent are responding to men’s demands for more family-friendly work policies. Which is exactly what they should be doing considering that 89 percent of dads say it’s important for employers to provide paid parental leave. Even older businesses are playing ball: Johnson & Johnson bumped its paid parental leave up from one week to nine in May, Goldman Sachs recently doubled paid leave for non-primary caregivers, and PwC now offers six weeks’ paid parental leave for women and men." |
Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally
December 7, 2015
As attachment parents, my husband Scott and I have broken mainstream society's cardinal rule of parenting: Our daughter has slept in our bed for, at least, some portion of most of her 3,532 nights on this planet. |
Provide Consistent and Loving Care
November 30, 2015
Journalists have a unique position to be able to see an issue from all sides. We are natural investigators, posing questions that not everyone dares -- or even considers -- asking, and seeking as far, as long, as deep and as wide as necessary to find the answers. So what are ACEs and why should you care? Journalist Jane Stevens educates us -- through API's online magazine -- on how high ACE scores affect families and communities, no matter the income status. |
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