Risks of Helicopter Parenting Even With Warm Parenting

"Overall, stepping in and doing for a child what the child developmentally should be doing for him or herself, is negative," says Nelson. "Regardless of the form of control, it's harmful at this time period."

Nelson advises parents not to overcompensate by stepping back too far, for young people need support from their parents — just not control.

"Lack of control does not mean lack of involvement, warmth and support," he says.