"What are the mythical assumptions behind using cry-it-out (total extinction, unmodified extinction) or even controlled crying (graduated extinction) sleep training to get babies (0-2 years old or so) to sleep on their own? Here are several."
Babies and children have needs at night just as they do during the day; from hunger, loneliness, and fear, to feeling too hot or too cold. They rely on parents to soothe them and help them regulate their intense emotions. Sleep training techniques can have detrimental physiological and psychological effects. Safe co-sleeping has benefits to both babies and parents.
"What are the mythical assumptions behind using cry-it-out (total extinction, unmodified extinction) or even controlled crying (graduated extinction) sleep training to get babies (0-2 years old or so) to sleep on their own? Here are several." |
"Though the authors provide a rationale for sleep training by citing adverse consequences of parents deprived of sleep, they do not offer the alternative perspective of how babies’ systems are regulated by the caregiver’s physical presence through Read more |
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"The American Medical Association on Tuesday urged starting school later in the morning for teenagers so they can get enough sleep. |
Many parents bedshare, all around the world. API recognizes this, as well as the benefits that bedsharing brings to families. |
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The greatest lesson I've learned from Attachment Parenting is to question all assumptions. |
"Recently, however, some research has suggested that swaddling might not always be safe: |
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Mother of 1, Jane Kilmer, discusses the biological norm for toddler sleep and cautions parents to beware of sleep-training, on API's blog. |
"Just one more hug goodnight." |
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As attachment parents, my husband Scott and I have broken mainstream society's cardinal rule of parenting: Our daughter has slept in our bed for, at least, some portion of most of her 3,532 nights on this planet. |
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Infants with night-wakings were more likely to be boys, be breastfed, have a difficult temperament, come from a large family, have a depressed mother, be in a single-parent home, and/or attend fewer hours of non-parental child care; however, this tendency for more night-wakings tended to resolve by 18 months. |
In solitary sleep arrangements, mothers were more involved in nighttime parenting than fathers, and breastfeeding was related to less father involvement. More father involvement early on predicted fewer night-wakings by 6 months. |
Child sleep problems are based more on culturally-influenced parental perceptions than actual biological reasons, and nighttime sleep issues tended to be perceived more problematic than daytime naps. |
More research is needed to identify normal sleep patterns in breastfed versus bottle-fed infants, in toddlers, on weekdays versus weekends, and as related to gender and ethnic differences. What is known is that children sleep longer at night and experience fewer night-wakings and daytime naps as they develop. |