How an insecure childhood attachment affects a marriage...and what you can do about that
How does an insecure childhood attachment go on to affect marriage?
Especially if you developed an insecure attachment style as a child, you may have difficulty in relating to your spouse. The more we practice secure relationship skills, the more it rewires our brain in new, healthy ways to seek and strengthen attachment with our spouse without resorting to the insecure attachment tendencies from our youth. This takes hard, hard work. But it's so worth it.