The ocean, the Buddha, and nummies

"Buddhism teaches that desire causes suffering. The Sanskrit word 'tanha' is often translated as desire or attachment. But in my studies, the term 'clinging' reflects the wisdom of Buddhism best. When we cling to changing things wishing they didn’t change, we suffer. Taber and I share a healthy attachment, and this shouldn’t be confused with clinging. Indeed, a secure attachment base is necessary in order to both receive, and release, life’s gifts with emotional health."